Meetings: Before, During, After

Meetings: Before, During, After

Recurring-Meeting Memory: Stop Re-Litigating Old Decisions

Every recurring meeting reopens the same questions because nobody can find what was decided.

It's the Thursday sync. Someone asks, "Wait, did we decide to go with the second vendor or not?" And the room goes quiet, because three people remember three different answers. You spend eleven minutes reconstructing a decision you already made six weeks ago, land roughly where you started, and move on. Next month the same question comes back.

This happens in almost every standing meeting. The decisions are real and they got made; they just dissolved the moment the call ended. Nobody wrote them somewhere findable, so each meeting starts by paying interest on the last one.

The tool you reach for isn't the problem, and neither is anyone's memory. The problem is that the decision never became an artifact. The fix is one small file you keep between meetings, paired with a habit of writing to it.

#Why recurring meetings rot

A decision in a recurring meeting lives in the worst possible place: your head, plus four other heads, plus maybe a buried line in a chat thread. Heads forget and rewrite. Threads scroll away. By the next session, the decision exists only as a vague sense that "we talked about this."